While empowering women in unintrinsic fields, men will be automatically de-empowered and vice versa,
and if the number of women
empowerment areas increase
exponentially, especially in societies where the scopes and opportunities are
at their lower level, the male of the specie would be pushed back from its traditional positions and
the gap would not be acceptably filled.
Women empowerment is a fascinatingly catchy phenomenon, but if not properly
understood and implemented, it is bound to be unfulfilling ------, particularly
for the women, this shattering story moves when--------------------------
the Open merit seats of professional colleges are occupied mostly by the females, letting more book
bound and less exposed professionals to
be churned out, consequently male of the specie will have to
go for the secondary fields of
education that will compel them to earn by opting vulnerable areas of
employment, while their female class
fellows will take home their degrees
to pack them in dowry bags or few of them will trek the safer zones( as
witnessed--doctors teaching O/A level
students, women with commerce degrees tutoring
economics in intermediate colleges) http://tribune.com.pk/story/322494/wastage-of-resources-majority-of-female-doctors-are-non-practising/
The second act starts when a lesser degree holder, unemployed person tries for a vacant seat and as the company is an equal opportunity employer ,the
chances are, any woman will fill the
vacancy since she can be easily managed, moulded and terrified with
lesser pay, more working hours, while adding
to the office attraction.
Visualize the house of the
empowered mother, where she is gone for the stretched working hour’s job
leaving her house , children , old parents (sometimes the angry stay home father as well
)at the disposal of the untrained/unsympathetic maids. Children move to their
dens with their iPods in prosperous households and to the streets in not so lucky ones. Who is accountable for their
social and moral upbringing?
The impersonation sounds so
familiar, because all those who have been denied admissions and jobs, are no other than
our brothers /fathers / and sons and the phenomenon of women empowerment backlash
us when they are denied admissions in
their natural fields remain jobless.
(according to the Pakistan bureau of
statistics the unemployment rate amongst the Pakistani youth stands at the rate of 6.0 percent for the
year 2015-2016).
Apart from financial constraints
in the house, a man unemployed suffers serious personality disorders that
include lack of empathy, parasitic lifestyle, self pity, alcoholism and
smoking.
In extreme cases, unemployment
becomes one reason for breaking the marital relationship as the person becomes
incapable of going for long term commitments or the associations drag
pitifully.
The empowered woman is actually a disconsolate
woman in most ways (exceptions are always there) as House and Family is woman’s natural domain,
she is the one who rear children,
monitor educational activities steer the love and support relationship, fix financial
matter. When she has to depart her true sphere of influence for one or the
other reason, she is de-empowered unquestionably owing to undue interference. (try
interviewing wife of an unemployed/recently retired person)
“Men are the protectors and
maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than
the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the
righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband’s)
absence what Allah would have them guard.”(al Quran 4:34).
Empowerment is vital, but more important is
practicing it in the precise speciality.This phenomenon is dangerous and ought
to be dealt with care. It follows the same rules as energy does, empowering one
de-empowers other , and if this energy is unable to deliver sufficiently
and in the vital areas the societies get
plagued with social diseases like incest, broken homes , single parent families
, rising rates of suicides a amongst youth. Empower both the sexes but where
their natural instincts belong to.
